I sat down with her and as I had soft conversations with her, she poured out her heart to me. I have come to understand that people reveal their true personalities to me at two stages of their lives. One is when they feel so broken and just need someone to listen to their pain and the 2nd time they pour out their hearts to me is when they buy into me and feel a sense of comfort to be just 'who they are', and most fall under this category.
Her Story:
Intimacy between her and her husband had vanished from their relationship because her husband had found a new love which he was addicted to.... "Pornography". And he preferred to watch series of porn and satisfy his sexual needs without her help. He did not need her for what he could achieve himself literally.
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Pornography is believed to be for adults, but I say Pornography is not meant for humans, the thinking behind the production of pornography is just Vile & Flawed. I was having a conversation with a young man who saw no harm in watching pornography as it helped his realtionships. I asked him this question "If you knew the acts behind the pornography you watched or rightly put, if a member of the cast was your daughter, mum or sister will it still interest you/turn you on"?
Pornography is the main reason why so many couples are having unsatisfying relationships because expectations are unrealistic. Pornography is not love and does not depict anything of beauty that is to be desired. Its the devil's tool to subtly warm its way into the hearts of men/women and in turn make humans his slaves through addiction to porn.
Today children as young as 8 years of age are exposed to explicit sexual image and we wonder why the increase in rape, sexual violence, insecurity and all forms of sexual toxicity not to mention other negative effects are constantly making headlines.
You might say, "Please Elly, you are being dramatic about this, its really no big deal" but I am happy, its not just my point of view as a born again child of God but even a lady who has first hand involvement has raised an outcry against the pornographic industry which for your information makes billions of profit.
From the viewer statistics/site entry, I have some individuals view the blog from a pornographic site which I feel good about because when the individual logs on this site, I believe and hope they receive inspiration that brings about deliverance. The sad thing about pornography is that it has many captives, christians/ priests/pastors/bishops and a lot of individuals we least expect to be enslaved to the grip of porn. Today however if you are reading this and struggling with pornography, I speak deliverance in the name of Jesus and I declare you free from this addiction.
Anyways read what Pamela Anderson has to say:
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Pamela Anderson has hit out against the porn industry
and its portrayals of sex in an impassioned and personal lecture to Oxford
students.
The 49-year-old former Baywatch star says the vast
majority of porn shows sex that is ‘demeaning and hurtful’, and all too often
involves violence against women.
She added that being ‘treated like a porn star’ in bed
left her feeling ‘worthless’, and called for a greater focus on loving sex
rather the kind that apparently necessitates women being ‘slapped, called a
whore and spat on’.
Pamela Anderson had some strong words to say against
the porn industry
‘I’m romantic. I am afraid that the world might forget
how to make love,’ she said.
‘I’m not a prude and there lays the frustration. Great
sex is not porn and when you’re treated like a porn star it’s not fun.’
The Canadian-American, who has been the subject of two
high-profile sex tapes in her lifetime, added: ‘I was told due to my background
I had no right to privacy. It made me feel worthless.’
The Baywatch icon says she has been treated like a
porn star
Turning to what exactly she thinks is harmful about
porn in 2016, Pamela laid down some truths about its all-too-common depictions
of violence against women.
‘It is not fine to be slapped, called a whore and spat
on – it’s sick, it’s hurtful, it’s demeaning and it’s terrible, terrible sex,’
she said.
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Women are clearly the victims in most porn according
to Pamela
‘It’s not the titillating images [that are
problematic]. It is getting violent. I’m worried about violence against women.’
Asked about the recent scandal over Donald Trump
saying he could ‘grab women by the p***y’ in 2005, Pamela added that she
believes remark was not merely ‘locker room talk’, but evidence of the kind of
sexist attitude that’s still endemic to society.
‘It’s terrible and I’ve heard other men speak that
way, even about me. It cannot be swept under the rug because how we deal with
it – how he is… it’s not okay,’ she mused.
‘So I was completely offended, like everybody else,
and I don’t like the way he said it was just locker room behaviour, because I
don’t believe that’s true of the men who do speak that way.
‘It’s got to stop, you’ve got to have respect for
women, behind closed doors, around women and around men,’ she concluded.
Pamela, who is also a vegan and an animal rights
activist, will be making an appearance
in the upcoming Baywatch movie, 20 years after she last appeared on the TV
show.
She joined the iconic soap in 1992 at the age of 25
after modelling for Playboy and starring in sitcom Home Improvement.
Read more:
http://metro.co.uk/2016/10/17/pamela-anderson-lays-down-some-truths-about-porn-during-lecture-at-oxford-university-6196260/#ixzz4NROreybb
